魅力超凡的人都有哪些习惯
Some people instantly make us feel important. Some people instantly make us feel special. Some people light up a room just by walking in.
有些人总能令人感到他们很重要。有些人总能令人感到他们很特别。有些人仅仅走进房间就能让整个房间都充满欢乐。
We can't always define it, but some people have it: They're naturally charismatic.
我们很难解释，但有些人就是这样：他们天生就充满魅力。
Unfortunately, natural charisma quickly loses its impact. Familiarity breeds, well, familiarity.
很不幸，天生的魅力会很快就失去影响。熟悉总是会造成，唔，熟悉。
But some people are remarkably charismatic: They build and maintain great relationships, consistently influence (in a good way) the people around them, consistently make people feel better about themselves--they're the kind of people everyone wants to be around...and wants to be.
不过有些人非常富有魅力：他们能建立并维持很好的人际关系、总能影响身边的人（正面影响）、总能让别人自我感觉更好——他们是那种人人都想和他们在一起……而且人人都想成为的那种人。
Fortunately we can, because being remarkably charismatic isn't about our level of success or our presentation skills or how we dress or the image we project--it's about what we do.
所幸的是我们可以成为那样的人，因为构成超凡魅力的并不是我们的成功程度、演讲能力又或是我们的穿着或外表——而是我们的所作所为。
Here are the 10 habits of remarkably charismatic people:
以下是那些具有超凡魅力的人们所拥有的10个习惯：
They listen way more than they talk.
1.聆听远多过诉说。
Ask questions. Maintain eye contact. Smile. Frown. Nod. Respond--not so much verbally, but nonverbally.
提问、眼神交流、微笑、蹙眉、点头、回应——不需要太多的语言、只需要作出姿态。
That's all it takes to show the other person they're important.
就是要让别人感到他们很重要。
